You believe that you are the person known as <your name>.
But right now you already are not that person.
You have never been that person and will never be that person.
YOU already ARE before a person appears.
YOU are self-less.
YOU were never born.
YOU are before the body.
Not-a-person. Not-an-individual. Not-a-self.
If this is seen directly (mind-lessly), not as knowledge (thought) but as a direct realization (in-sight), then belief in being the person is over — although what before was considered to be a person (body + actions) continues.
It is the solution to all your problems.
Not because the problems are solved but because there is no longer anyone they pertain to.
This is sort of like the Buddhist concept of "emptiness", the idea that all things are impermanent and dependent on other things. There is no "self" or perhaps it is the ego. Just as the self must label all things, ie. a tree. The tree is just a tree that we've labeled but it is so much more; it is the earth, sun, rain, and wind all incorporated into "tree". We label "self". Who is "We"?
"The world was over today
The time is already gone
Throw your mind in the sea
Eternity doesn't last very long
There's some people on Earth
They live in separate minds
Dissolve your body today
There is no in or outside"
Swans - Mind/Body/Light/Sound
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jY6qjHrJJHQ