You don’t come to see the nondual.
Space-time is embedded into our experience of the world. Duality is baked into our perception.
With all the talk of seeing this, there can be the idea that we will see the world differently.
Where before we saw separation, we will see only unity. We will no longer experience a separate self.
If that were the case, there would be utter chaos. We can’t function without duality.
But although our senses will always show a material world subject to the passing of time, there can be a simultaneous knowing that this isn't the truth of it.
It looks like two, and yet it obviously is not-two.
This obviousness is the result of realizing in direct experience that there IS a filter* — in becoming aware that IT alone causes the mistaken belief in separation and selfhood.
Not in trying to understand how it all works. Although some understanding can help if it becomes direct experience.
And definitely not in trying to remove the filter.
* This is one way of realizing this. There may be others but I have no experience of them.
This should be taught to infants by their parents.
A gold mine has just been found 😊